You know that feeling you get after you finally cross off an item on your to-do list? Yeah, I love it too.
After years of scribbling out huge lists of stressful, pressuring, unrealistic resolutions, I've shortened this years down to just 5.
I've planned ahead this year, so I began my resolutions a few weeks ago. Knowing myself, I can't adapt to a change instantly. Like a lot of things in life, resolutions take time getting used to!
1) Limit legging days.
I don't have anything against people who wear leggings, it's just that leggings were my "sweatpants". Back in high school, I would always wear my notorious maroon sweatshirt, and throw on a pair of leggings. No joke, this was my outfit at least 5 days a week. When it was time for university, I swore I would ditch the leggings and at least try to wear some basic skinny jeans. Unfortunately, I took time for granted living on campus, so I would constantly be in a rush, grabbing whatever pieces of clothing hanging on the side of my bed, and run out to class. No surprise, my outfits were, yet again, a sweatshirt and leggings.
A few months ago, I finally put my "sweatpants" away, and I've been trying to look as presentable as I can whenever I leave the house. I don't know if it's just me, but I've realized that by putting more effort into my outfits made me want to put more effort into everything else.
Real pants are magical. They make you want to be a whole new person.
2) Buy quality staple pieces.
I'm sure I'm not the only one giving in to Forever 21's unbeatable, super cheap prices and decent styles (which they've definitely upgraded). But I think it's time to move on from the thin mixed material chiffon white tees, to the 100% silk heavy duty. A $10 t-shirt that will last me merely a month or two, or a $50 t-shirt that will last me a good year or two? Definitely the latter.
3) Eat at home.
I have full control of what and how much I consume when I eat at home. By eating at home more often, or packing food to go, will not only help me with my health but will also help me save money. $10 a lunch x 5 days a week = $200 a month!
4) Be more independent.
When a helping hand is necessary I won't hesitate to reach out, but I want to be capable of handling most situations on my own. In my opinion, being independent means a lot of things. It means to be responsible, respectful, and confident. I like being challenged, but I often panic and find myself relying on others without a thought. I don't want to think any less of myself. I want to conquer as many obstacles that get thrown at me this year, because at the end of the day there is nothing more satisfying than to get things done yourself.
5) Stop worrying so much
I can be a little uptight. If plans don't go accordingly I tend to freak out. Lately, I've just gotten so tired of stressing out over worrying about things I have no control of. I'm slowly realizing that when something unexpected happens (unless I can actually do something about it) I just need to let it go with the flow.
